Sarah Jessica Parker once stated, “When men try bold gestures it’s generally considered romantic.” It’s usually considered psychotic or desperate when women do this. The best way to avoid it is not to take any approach. That’s right. Your only task is to relax and be the feminine, soft-spoken creature God created you to be.
The purpose of a man is to chase you and protect you. At his core, he wants you to be happy. To try to steal the thrill of the chase is to be a thief. Women who know their worth will not make any effort to win the attention of men. They are more open to taking it or leaving it. A man will do everything in his power to win back a woman who has been a good friend. He may have needed space and time. It is possible that it could be another woman. If that’s the situation, he will have to work hard to return your favors. It’s as simple as that. It’s easy to forget that we are women in today’s modern world and allow the man to take the lead.
Although it may be fun to chase a man for a while, the best women know that true confidence comes from knowing that he is interested in you. It is important to pursue him. It proves his worthiness, and eventually separates the men from the boys. You gain confidence knowing he is right where he wants to go. An easy woman is not something a man will appreciate. While he may have a quick catch for a while, he won’t ever slip a ring on his woman’s finger.
A patient woman is a smart woman
Patience is a sign of maturity and self-control, which are qualities that men love in a woman. This shows that you can control your emotions. Be the best woman you can be. Repeat to yourself …. Me. Me.
Me. Me. Me. Now is the time to prove Mr. Ex and Mr. Rights to the world that you’re worth it and be your best.
This is a time to reevaluate what it takes for you to be happy and fulfilled. Everybody needs a little help from time to time. This is the right time to be passionate about your life. You want a man who will make you his priority. You have to admit that Mr. Ex didn’t bring what you need, regardless of whether it was a personality conflict, timing, or another woman. As I mentioned, he is not the only man with a pulse or penis. There are millions upon millions of hunters around the globe… you’re the prize.
You could be making fatal mistakes
This may be a way to speed up the process by initiating contact.
Avoid trying to speed up the process by making these errors:
- You can call him
- Texting him
- Send an email to him
- Plan your breakfast, lunch, dinner, or cocktail.
- Remind him in a loving manner that today is your two-year anniversary
- Offer to prepare his favorite meal
- Send him old photos of you two
- Send him sentimental notes
- Send him flowers
- Initiate affection
- Initiate sex
- Remember special moments you shared together
- Tweet or post about him
- Tweet or post how much your love for him is. Tweet or tweet how you miss him. Wish him a Happy Birthday. Merry Christmas
- We wish him a happy new year
Do not give the impression that you are thinking of him by doing things that might make him feel like he is on your mind. It’s safe for you to assume that you think of him when you talk about him or do things for him.
Men are not comfortable talking about their emotions or feelings. This is precisely what you want to get him to do. Now, stop talking and just be silent. You will never be satisfied unless he does everything for you.
Ask yourself, at the end of it all, if you really want a man who is interested, available, and reliable? These are all key ingredients to a long-lasting, successful relationship.
Keep calm and carry on
To start the No Contact Rule, you must first take the time to manage your emotions and allow your brain time to connect with your heart. The old saying, “Time heals all injuries” is true.
It’s normal to feel devastated after a breakup. You want the one who hurts you most to give you the comfort you need to get through the ups and downs. You are in love when you feel bonded to someone. Separation anxiety, and many other emotions in the first few weeks of separation, are perfectly normal.
Your maturity is demonstrated by your ability to control your emotions. It’s okay to feel like you’re in a state of total despair and want to escape into a cave. These feelings can last as long as you allow them to. You have two options: you can allow these feelings to consume your life or you can get out of it quickly. You may need to make yourself go out with friends, or date when you don’t want to. But if you do that, you’ll find you have more fun. I Promise!
It’s easy to allow your emotions to overwhelm you with technology at your fingertips. Your first instincts when it comes to dealing with heart issues are often wrong. It is important to resist the temptation to send a text message or email. You must avoid these impulses like the plague. Recognize that they are a sign of weakness. If you are unable to control your impulses, yelling at someone is an indicator of insecurity. Be patient.
A second important factor is to recognize that there is an entire universe.
There is a world out there waiting for you to live it. Women believe that life is more enjoyable when there are strong hands to hold and a place to rest. Relying on others to make your life happy is not a good idea. Before you can love anyone else, you must first love yourself. While you cannot control what happens in your life, you can control how your emotions, happiness, and contentment react to it. It is easy to forget that Mr. Right can only be our source of comfort and stability. The right will provide it.
If you love yourself, that’s when all the planets align in your life. You deserve someone who will wrap your heart in love. Don’t settle for less. You don’t have to be alone. This means that you are strong enough to face the challenges life throws at you and patient enough for the right man to come into your life. Without Mr. Ex or Mr., You are right.
You will always be able to handle a split in a professional manner if you are able to accept that men may have different needs, desires, and feelings. It has nothing to do w/ you. Let go and move on. Do not hold onto the past. Do yourself a favor and don’t let past mistakes hinder your ability to move on in the future.
You are the only one who will take care of you and your best interests. Be your greatest advocate. Be happy with yourself. Imagine the life that you desire. Plan to create the life you want. You must love yourself enough to have enough self-respect and self-love to accept all that life and love have to offer.