If a man broke up with us, we would smile gently and accept the split. We would be kind enough to wish him well and leave the premises with our heads held high. There were no hard feelings or ill will. If he called us, we would treat him the same. We would simply choose to ignore his text and take the high road.
This makes me giggle because your response to a breakup is not kind, warm, or rational. Do you act in a mature manner? It’s not important! You can change the way you see the world by using a few words that have a lot of meaning.
You wouldn’t be able to handle the news of your best friend’s death if you didn’t show emotion. No! It is not! The difference is that there is still a living, breathing person in this world. You are grieving the loss of your relationship. It’s normal to feel upset.
But how you deal with a breakup from the outside is what makes the difference between the women and the girls. Even Rules girls who are accustomed to knowing the rules of dating can be shaken by an unexpected breakup.
First, you’ll analyze your relationship, particularly the last month. Then you will go back over the details in your head trying to find the root cause. You may conclude that you weren’t as available as you should have been. You start to believe you should have cooked more of his favorite dishes. Perhaps you should have taken part in more of his hobbies. It’s hard to comprehend something you don’t understand.
You were both happy, weren’t you? You wish you could talk to him… but he doesn’t answer calls. You are sinking into despair because text messages aren’t being answered, which means that you don’t have any hope of getting a response.
Silence is a woman’s best friend
Controlling your emotions immediately after a breakup is the most difficult part. Silence is the best thing for your emotions. It’s fine to break down… but not before Mr. Ex. Keep your cool, stay grounded, and don’t beg, plead, or grovel for him back. Although it may sound ridiculous, this is exactly what women do after a breakup.
You can keep your emotions in check and your power where it belongs by controlling your emotions. You are the one who is responsible for your emotions. It may seem wrong to conceal your emotions, or that you aren’t being authentic. But men hide their emotions all the time. This is what makes women and men different. We are influenced by our emotions. Men are skilled at reading emotions and using them to our advantage, making us easy targets. You’ll lose the game if you show all your emotions.
You’re likely to have heard the saying “Men think with a penis, but not their brain”? After a breakup, you should be thinking with your heart, and not your brain. Be smart, and use logic during difficult times. To outsmart men, use logic. Keep your mouth shut so that he doesn’t know what you are thinking. Keep him guessing.
You can transfer the feelings of insecurity, rejection, and anger he has caused you to feel to him by not letting him know what you are thinking. No contact makes him smile and take a second look at you. Men want what they don’t have. You must make him feel that you are not his.
Strong women steal the show
Strong women know how to care for their children and take care of the lives they have created. She is also a good listener. She isn’t a fan of drama. She doesn’t let a man make her unhappy. She is confident in her self-worth and value. She is with a man she likes, not because he needs her to. She knows that if a man leaves her life, it will be his loss. She recognizes that having a man around is an added benefit, not a necessity, and she is capable of taking care of herself. Men are attracted to women who can walk away from a relationship like honey bees.
If you instantly jump into fixing it mode to fix a relationship, then you are falling for his game. He expects you to text and call him every hour of the day or night, expressing your unwavering love. This is how the “hard to get man” is used to. Guess what? You’re losing his respect for him every time your name appears on his phone. He thinks he is the star of the drama. He is assuming that his actions will convince him that he doesn’t need to work a sweat just to win you back.
Many women fall in love too quickly and, without realizing it, end up giving away too much of their own self. Perhaps you were difficult to get at first, but let him chase after you like a lion pursues its prey until he finally catches you. Perhaps your fault is being too kind and too open. Men believe that women who are too kind and available to men are not only hungry for love, but also dehydrated. Most women don’t realize what they’re doing until it’s too late.
It is only natural to desire to make your man happy. When you give away too much, a relationship can unravel. He has lost interest in you. He has lost interest in you. You were the woman who gave too much, made her own schedule, answered the phone when it rang, and gave your all, only to be shocked when he got bored or find someone who gives him the thrill of the chase. It’s a never-ending vicious cycle.
How to Prevent a Man from Losing Interest
You can’t lose interest in yourself if you don’t lose interest in him. You set high standards that require him to constantly strive to exceed them. You must know your limits and refuse to accept bad behavior. By
He will respect you so much that he will place you on a pedestal. You’ve been caught by not allowing him to believe.
Most men are focused on making the conquest. They want to be able to have you. They don’t have to prove anything once they have you. Then they can move on to the next woman who believes they are handsome, smart, and charming. Men are afraid to commit. This is the biggest myth about relationships. Men fear losing the adrenaline rush that comes with a new woman believing he is some fairy prince charming.
If you have other things in your life, he doesn’t feel trapped or suffocated. So make sure your life is full. A man should be seen as an addition to a great dish. Although the dessert can be enjoyed as is, it tastes even better when you add all of the toppings.
Emails, text messages, and social media
It is almost impossible for women to be anonymous and it is even more difficult to deal with a breakup due to the sheer number of communication channels available. You can use keyboards to quickly express any emotions that you need. A pissed woman can send text messages faster than anyone else.
Women are often described as creatures of routine. Add an unexpected breakup to the mix and you will be devastated. You may be devastated by the split, but Mr. Ex is one step ahead. He had ample time to prepare and plan his exit before he informed you. He’s handling the split like a pro… he had plenty of time to mentally prepare and to disconnect emotionally.
Why do women lose the battle of the breakup?
Because women can’t cope with being mentally prepared. It shocks you! It shocks you! This is also an excellent example of what to avoid.
You can handle a breakup by being silent right away. No Contact has two goals. The first is to heal from the breakup and move forward to Mr. This gives you the opportunity to start your new life. It tells Mr. Ex you are confident in who you are and competent enough to manage your own life.
Second, give Mr. Ex time and space so that he can wonder what your thoughts are. You can regain control of your emotions and regain your power by controlling your emotions. No contact is a cover for the fact that you might be in serious trouble. No Contact, regardless of what your goal is, accomplishes the goal.
You don’t need to announce to the world or Mr. Ex that you are not going to speak with him again. Start No
Contact means that you are taking a step back, and will not make any effort to contact him.
This includes, but isn’t limited to, phone calls, text messages, and running into Mr. Ex. And no ex-sex! This means that you will accept the end of your relationship as it is, regardless of whether you feel closure. Women who are self-aware and confident in their own worth won’t seek out men. A man will not value you if you rush to fix things after a breakup
Make an agreement with yourself to not initiate any contact. Believe that you are worth a phone call if you don’t believe any of these things about yourself. You can stop causing more damage by trying to contact him via any communication method, such as texting, calling, emailing, or e-mailing him.
No damage control is required
It is not necessary to apologize, explain or excuse yourself for your actions. It was normal to feel emotional. This is a sign that you love him. He will eventually forget all the negative thoughts and start to think about the positives by being silent.
Oprah Winfrey once stated, “Lots and people want to ride in the limousine with you, but what they want is someone who will get on the bus with them when the limo stops working.” This can also be applied to relationships. You want a man who can deal with both the good and the bad times. You can rest assured that if he doesn’t want you during the good times, it is unlikely he will be there for your needs during the difficult times. Marriage vows are necessary for a reason.
Include “for better and for worse”. Men are problem solvers at heart. They will fix it if they are motivated.
True alpha males will not miss a beat in coming up with solutions for a problem. He will find a solution to any problem if he wants you. He will do anything to get you. If he doesn’t manage you on your bad days then you should understand that he isn’t worthy of your good ones. This one is easy to forget.
To make him miss you
He grew to appreciate the attention you paid him while you were in a relationship. He enjoyed the benefits of a committed relationship with you, including being available to answer his calls and text messages, as well as meeting you for dinner.
You can’t make him miss you if you aren’t in a committed relationship. Only by making him feel the void, will he be serious about wanting you back and keeping your name to himself. Keep in touch with him throughout the
You fail to make him feel your absence from his life at the beginning of a breakup. Just like a death.
You can ignore him, which is against your every fiber. But now you need to show self-control and restraint. You will want to answer his calls quickly, but you should not give the impression that you are waiting for him on the phone or via text. His call should go straight to voicemail. It may take several hours or even days for you to respond.
Don’t reply to a text he sends, such as “This is beautiful weather.” It doesn’t require an answer. It is a text that requires no response. He can also declare by text that he “misses” you. He’s just saying he misses your company. He isn’t asking for a dinner date. He isn’t asking for a dinner date. You shouldn’t reward him just for being able to type sentences on a keyboard. If this is a short-term relationship, I doubt he can jump in his car to be right next to you in twenty-five minutes. You can show him the silent treatment until he knocks on your door and makes grand gestures.
You must make him start again if reconciliation is possible in the future. He has to put in the effort to restore the relationship to its original state before he lost his way. That’s correct. Let’s get to the chase. Until
Then, you’re busy living your new life!
You are letting him know nothing about you and your thoughts, and you’re slowly allowing insecurity and rejection to grow within you. To do this, you must make him feel that you are not his.
This may be a lie. How does that work for you? There wouldn’t be any need in a perfect universe, but it isn’t perfect. You have a good chance he has been playing with you for many months, years, or even longer. The thrill of the chase is what men love. He may become bored after he has you. You can have fun and learn how to play this never-ending game.
Women don’t have to work hard for what they want when they’re in love, which is something men don’t understand. Men mistakenly think that love is a sign of neediness, when in reality you are trying to make the relationship work.
Your instincts want you to communicate. To understand No Contact’s actions, it is best to not do the exact opposite of what you want. You can take your 100% availability down to 20% if you are not available.
Sherry Argive said, “Men don’t respond to words. They respond to no contact.” Let silence speak volumes about you. This is the moment to show your inner strength and beauty. Let him know that you are moving forward with your life and it functions without him. This is when Mr. Ex will start to pay more attention to you. You’ll be asked what you’re doing for a change, and he’ll wonder what’s going on.
This is what you want. You want to change your relationship with him. You were devastated when he split with you. You didn’t have the chance to repair what was wrong. You can take away his emotional control over you. You win. Now you have the chance to prove him wrong. It will put his Texas-sized ego in check.
This is the best time to restore the life you lived before your husband entered your home.
the world. Reflect on who you were as a woman when you first met. Now is the time for you to start to be that woman again if you have let yourself down in any way. You can set new goals and create a plan to achieve them. This not only makes your life more fulfilling, but it also makes you more attractive for men. Men love women who are always striving to improve themselves.