How To Get Your Confidence Back Up After The Breakup

Consider the woman you admire most. She might be the one that everyone notices. She seems to hold the whole world in her hands. Both men and women are fascinated by her. People are drawn to her for more than her bone structure and physical beauty. They are more interested in her self-confidence, and how she handles herself. Men love confident women. A confident woman is more attractive to men than any other type of woman.

Is it something you were born with?

Confidence is not something that you’re born with. Although some women are born with confidence, most people have learned to be confident. You can learn to be confident and put yourself in a position to feel confident. Find a way to get it if you don’t already have it. It’s the old saying, “Fake it until you make it.” Train every day to be confident and see how people react to you.

How can you make yourself confident?

Define yourself

Your rules are yours. Be in control of your thoughts. Do not let society, men, or anyone else dictate your feelings about yourself. Find your inner voice, and establish your own standards for living. Do not let others’ beliefs or opinions affect yours. Your own rules of living, and your own standards. Your life is yours. How do you want others to view you and remember you? Take care of yourself and your family, friends, and only worry about you. You won’t think of others if you are busy taking care of yourself.

Identify your strengths and learn how to use them

What are your strengths? What are your strengths? What are your strengths? You can identify and make use of each one. Each day, remind yourself of the things that make you strong.

Dress the part

Many women don’t like getting dressed up and running to the grocery store to pick up a loaf of bread. If you don’t want to do it for yourself, consider doing it for others you may meet while running those errands. Everyone has bad hair days, but we can all take some pride in our appearances. You will feel like a mess if you make yourself look bad. Do not show up at work looking like you’re ready to go to the Laundromat (or the bar). Ask yourself before you go out each day what your appearance says about you to others. It doesn’t take you long to get dressed.

Enjoy life to the fullest

It is easy to fall into a routine, also known as a “rut”. You should try new things, explore places you might not normally visit, and do things that you wouldn’t normally do. You might have fun, meet new people and have fun.

Be positive and surround yourself with positive people and affirmations

What books and magazines do you read? What music do you listen to? What are your Twitter and Facebook feeds like? Any negatives should be replaced with positives. Remove any toxic people from your life immediately. You should only read books and articles that will enrich your life. Eliminate toxic people from your life. Your attitude can change the environment and your outlook. Every day, tell yourself:

  • I love myself.
  • I believe in me.
  • Any goal I set is possible.
  • I shine.
  • I feel great.
  • I look great.
  • Today is going to be an amazing day!

It’s a simple idea. Write it down and keep it in a drawer that you open each morning. You will believe in yourself if you repeat it to yourself. Every day, make it a habit to show the best you to all those you meet. You’ll be the woman everyone notices when you practice consistency.

Take a deep dive into the dating pool

Women make the biggest mistake of devoting all their attention to one man when he isn’t devoted to her. Although you may feel guilty about having more than one man in your life, it is not a bad thing. This is something men do all the time. They are experts at hiding it. Women want security, men want sex. Don’t give a man sex only if he is not providing security. It’s as simple as that. If a man really likes you, he will tell you that he does not want you to continue dating men.

Recognize and accept that your life is no longer the same as it was before you met Mr. Ex. You are a single woman and can choose to date any man that interests you. It’s okay to continue dating as long as you don’t sleep with every man you meet (unless you wish to), Even if Mr. Ex returns, keep your options open. This will remind him that he is not the only fish in this sea, and make you even more attractive.

It is a great way to boost your self-confidence and learn to be able to date multiple men. Because choosing the right man to spend your time with is more like choosing the right shoes for the perfect outfit. This puts you in the role of the selector, not the chaser. You don’t have to wait for one man to call you, as you now have many men to keep you busy. It changes your situation from being in need of someone to being desired by someone. No matter how much you like one of the men, keep at least three to four men in your dating pool. Keep your options open until you find the man of your dreams.

Be mysterious

A woman who is difficult to understand and a bit elusive is loved by men. Why? Because it intrigues him. After a split, being a mystery can be both attractive and challenging. You’ve been following the rules and not texting or calling, then Mr. Ex will call you eventually because “curiosity kills cats”. He will eventually want to know about your life, and even more importantly, why he isn’t calling. If he calls, please leave a voicemail. Respond to him after the third or fourth attempt. Be polite, but not too detailed. Again, be polite but not too specific if you send a text message. Do not tell him how much it’s been missing him. Be polite and leave him alone at any social event. Don’t leave him guessing and wondering where you are going.

The biggest attraction killer

Be needy if you want to see a man perform like a professional athlete and run away. A clingy, needy woman is less attractive to a man. While a man wants to feel valued and respected, he also doesn’t want to feel like his life or happiness depends on him. If you find yourself doing any of these things, you might be wasting too much time, and find ways to fill it.

Signs that you might be acting too needy

  • You want to be in constant contact with your loved one to find out where he is.
  • Attention is what you seek.
  • It is a constant worry that you will be dumped.
  • He’s always there, even if you cancel your plans to be with him.
  • He can do what he likes.
  • You make him feel guilty for not doing all you want.

A man’s attraction to you is destroyed faster than a light switch. It shouts, “Something is wrong!” A woman who allows a man walk on her like she is a treadmill is the same. Men do not find pushovers or doormats attractive. Understanding your worth and the strengths you bring to a relationship is key. Demonstrate to him that you are a woman who is strong.